No one steals something that is given to them. They are added to an alliance and their chat and receive MM's and messages due to that.
The fact that they then pass them on does not mean that they stole them. I'm surprised that you, as a law student, don't understand that.
I have yet to be in an alliance that makes you sign a non-disclosure agreement. But who knows... maybe you are the first leader to be that anal. Wouldn't surprise me in the slightest.
Re.: Natar win.
I did say try thinking didn't I?
Think of it as this. I know that this is taking it to the limits, but that is mathematics for you. Or calculus at least.
If you are a WW alliance, you build only nice cheap anvil troops. You then store the anvil troops at half wheat. Trade routes mean that you cannot fail to feed them unless your grasp of mathematics is below.... dunce level.
If you are a Natar win alliance, you build expensive siege and lots of expensive (as compared with their attack) horsies. Even inf D is cheap with respect to their power. Most people do not store those at half wheat. Raiding helps, but at endgame, most farms are tapped to almost zero all the bloody time.
And this is not even thinking about the difference between building troops out of multiple villages or anything like that. You know that time factor. And GB/ GS's.
Please don't tell me that you need me to explain this further. I really didn't think I would have to explain this to you, but there you go. I over estimated you.