When posting in the embassies be aware that it is as much a game as the actual game. Alliances and players are trying to make themselves look "good" and their opponents look "bad". So, a certain amount of aggression, misdirection, and smoke & mirrors is to be expected. Remember that a player who is an "enemy" this round or this server may be a "friend" next round or on another server. Most people who have played for a while are aware of this and treat posting in the embassies as the game that it is.